Best Ways to Create a Child-Centered Custody Plan
Divorce can be hard on children. However, a child-centered custody plan can help make the process less stressful and painful for them. It can provide a road map for how divorcing parents can behave in the best interests of their children, despite any anger or resentment each spouse may have. By focusing on putting the children’s emotional needs first, parents can show their children that they deeply love and care for them even though they are divorcing. At the Harris & McKeown Law Firm, we can help you create an effective child-centered plan.
Divorce Can Be Adversarial – But the Children Don’t Have to Know
The process of divorce can quickly become adversarial. A divorce petition usually reads “parent versus parent,” which alone can cause animosity. Furthermore, one parent often contemplates the divorce and is prepared for it, while the other parent is caught off guard. And the parents may, in fact, bitterly fight in court over issues like property or child support.
Nevertheless, regardless of conflict, parents should work hard to agree on a child-centered custody plan. Studies show that children are the most distressed in the first year or two after a divorce and often experience anger, anxiety, and disbelief. It’s not uncommon for children to feel less connected to one parent or both, which is why protecting their relationship with both parents is paramount. A child-centered custody plan will preserve those relationships and allow the ex-partners to successfully co-parent.
What Are Some Things a Child-Centered Custody Plan Includes?
Parents with a child-centered custody plan may be less prone to fight over what they agreed upon and what is clearly stated in the plan. In a child-centered approach, the children’s best interests should be the priority, and parents must be willing to compromise to reach agreed terms. This can be challenging, but at the Harris & McKeown Law Firm, we can help you create a plan that is fair.
A child-centered custody plan will:
- Have a clearly defined custody schedule that takes into account the school year, summertime, school breaks, and holidays.
- Make sure children can spend Mother’s Day with mom and Father’s Day with dad.
- Specify when children can travel out of state on vacations or visit family.
- Outline how parents make major decisions about the children, such as education or religion.
- Name the non-custodial parent as the preferred person for the children to be with for childcare needs instead of a paid childcare provider.
Focus on Good Communication
Maintaining healthy communication is vital to making a child-centered custody plan work. Positive communication and low levels of conflict help children adjust to divorce. It can foster a solid child-parent relationship and improve children's academic performance.
Call Us Today to Help You Build the Best Custody Plan
A child-centered custody plan is integral to any divorce where the children’s well-being is the top priority. At the Harris & McKeown Law Firm, we can help you build the best custody plan for your family. Call us at (512) 668-7733 or request a free consultation today.
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